
Well, I made it through my Internet fast!
While it was a good experience, it wasn’t exactly what I thought it’d be. What surprised me most is that it wasn’t really that different. I didn’t have compulsive urges to get online or anything. But it was surprisingly difficult to cut the Internet out of my life entirely. Something I pretty much failed at doing.
First of all, I allowed email during the fast. Basically, there was too much of a chance I could miss an important email from work. I also had to check things like mint.com or my bank, since I do my money management online. And, well, I have a pretty pitiful music collection. I tried for the first half of the week to only listen to my music, but eventually I broke down and went back to Pandora. Oh, and I left my weather widget running…
In short, I had a surprising amount of interaction with the Internet in spite of my fast. There’s a good portion of my life that does rely on the Internet. I don’t consider this an unhealthy thing though. Finances, email, etc. are all very good uses of the Internet in my mind.
What I did succeed at was untying myself entirely from my social networks. No Facebook, no Google+ (I do check it from time to time), no Twitter, no blog, no socializing of any kind on the Internet really.
Frankly, staying away from social networks didn’t really change things much for me. It was kinda nice to not worry about finding cool links to share, or having to compose a blog post, or anything like that. But that’s fun stuff I do with my free time, so it wasn’t that big of a deal.
Also, I wasn’t left with a bunch of free time and not knowing what to do with myself. Turns out I just read a lot more, and took up some old hobbies, like origami (which is a lot of fun actually).
The place where my Internet fast made the biggest difference was at work. First of all, I have to make a point here. A bit of browsing during work hours is actually a good thing. To be hyper-focused on one thing can actually be counterproductive sometimes. It’s good to take a break once in a while, and browsing is a perfectly good way to do that.
Unfortunately, I think I’ve wasted quite a bit of time browsing when I should be working. Not to excess or anything (I do get my work done), but it can be a bit of a distraction. I found that during work hours, if I took my breaks doing other things (like origami), it fulfilled that break without being too distracting. It was much easier to get back into the flow of work and get stuff done. This is something I’d like to keep doing.
And so, I’m back online. Without too much damage (either from being away, or from coming back). And I’m pleased to say, I think I’ve already found a pretty good balance.
Well… I did it. I made it to the end of my 30 day challenge. And quite frankly… I’m amazed I made it this far. There were a few times I almost gave up. And there were a few times I struggled to get a post out that day. But here I am, at the end, having completed it… and it feels good!
The more important part, however, is what I learned from this experience:
I learned that I actually have a little bit of talent at this. I’ve been surprised by the number of people who have expressed appreciation for and interest in my writing. Is my style perfect? No. Do I have awesome structure to my posts? No. But at least I can communicate my ideas (at least somewhat clearly). And it’s helped me to appreciate my own writing a lot more than before.
I learned that there is so much to say, and so few people who care. This may seem contrary to the last post, but let me explain. While I truly appreciate the people who read my blog (that means you), I know that compared with the readership of a lot of other blogs out there, mine is in the minority. I’d be willing to wage, however, that most of you have a blog of your own. Maybe you don’t post much on it, maybe you do, but either way, most of us are generating content online. Amazing amounts of content, really. And sometimes I wonder… are we generating more content than we can consume? I can’t possibly keep up with everything out there that’s being published online every day… nobody can. So why do we get upset when so few people pay attention to what we write? It’s a funny conundrum.
Some topics are more controversial than others. My apple posts and my Harry Potter post drew a lot of attention. Yet others, such as my posts about Tasha didn’t seem to draw much attention. I find this a little sad, really, that we express more interest in things of less significance, and less interest in the more meaningful things. It’s not that I don’t doubt you read them, and maybe you really did appreciate them, but I didn’t always see it (though I did see it from my wife—love you honey!).
It’s hard to come up with something interesting to post about every day! I’ll admit, a lot of those posts I didn’t spend a ton of time on, and they were kind of grudgingly finished. I also learned that if I open my eyes, I can find something interesting to post about fairly often. And I definitely enjoy posting about something I’m interested in much more than posting about less interesting things.
I’ve enjoyed my adventure. Now it’s time to think up another 30 day challenge!
(Also, this is my 100th post on this blog. How’s that for awesome timing?)
Well, I’m nearing the end of my thirty day challenge. It’s been an interesting adventure, and I’ll have more to say tomorrow (the last post of the challenge), but I wanted to discuss my plans for the week after I finish.
I’ve always heard of people doing such things as a “Facebook fast” or “Internet fast” and always thought that a little strange. I guess I assumed I was good enough at managing my online life that I didn’t need something like that. Since starting this thirty day challenge, I’ve reconsidered. I still think I’m capable of managing my online life, but I can see some positive benefits from being offline.
First of all, computers have made it so easy to distract ourselves. The Internet is so gosh darn ubiquitous nowadays. The recent trend of “apps” has made it even worse. Now not only is there more content out there than we can possibly consume, but we also have so many different ways of consuming it! “Should I check Twitter through my phone or my computer? The website or a different app that also brings in Facebook and Foursquare and LinkedIn? Oh my goodness, there’s a new Twitter app out there. Is it better than my current app? I’ll have to try it.” We almost can’t help ourselves.
My friend wrote a rather cool blog post about how enabling the Internet is. Specialists have been brought down a peg, due to the vast amount of knowledge available—free of charge—on the Internet. We will never be held back for lack of knowledge. We assume, however, that knowledge and wisdom are the same thing. While knowledge can be enabling, it can also be encumbering. It seems that with so much information out there, we end up losing our passions. We hop from one idea to the next, never really delving deep into any one, and consequently not benefiting that much. I myself am guilty of this all the time.
I’m not sure how or when it happened, but somehow I put more importance on the Internet and social networking and “cool things” that I have missed out on some of the things I’m most interested in. Guitar, piano, hiking, building stuff with my hands, enjoying the people I’m with, and most of all… being satisfied with where I am. The incredibly fast pace of the Internet has me always feeling antsy, like I’ve got to get on to the next big thing. I want to enjoy now.
And so, I’ve decided that next week I will take an “Internet fast.” I will turn of data on my phone (my phone becomes surprisingly boring without data), I will restrict myself to work related browsing while at work (something I should be doing more of anyways), and I will stay offline wherever else I am. I will find other ways to enjoy my time, and I will catch up on the things I should be paying more attention to.
I’m excited!
(Don’t worry though, I’ll be back to post more. Maybe not as much, but I’ll be here.)
This is a very good piece on the basic elements of design. I wish more people knew how to do this. Technology has somehow estranged a large number of artists. It’s sad really, cuz they are the ones we really need to make technology truly beautiful.
My wife showed me this video a while back. It’s from Mormon Messages, and I love it.
This summer has been an incredibly crazy summer. My wife and I made a list at the beginning of the summer, and so far I don’t think we’ve accomplished a single thing on it. You may have heard of some of the things we have gone through though: the IRS asking for $4000 in miscalculated taxes, both of us going to the doctor several times for different health concerns, my mom breaking her hip and helping her out, an unbelievably hot apartment, family vacations and reunions, my wife blogging for BYU WSR and changing jobs, previous boyfriend drama, school, work, the list goes on and on. Not to mention being newly married and just trying to adjust to that. We’ve had a little bit of a hard time keeping up with it all.
Which is why I love this message right now. It reminds me of the things I should be focusing on. So without further ado, here are some of the moments in the last few months that have mattered most to me:
I could list many more, but these are just a few. I love my life!
The most recent issue of the Ensign has a cool article featuring letters people have written to their moms and dads, thanking them for the lessons taught and the examples given. I wanted to write my own letter to my mom and dad, so they know how much I appreciate them.
Dear Mom and Dad,
Thank you so much for being such wonderful parents. As I look back at my life, I realize that so much of who I am today I owe to the example you set for me and the lessons you taught me. I have to thank you for never giving up on any of us kids. I know raising eight kids isn’t easy, but I’m so grateful for the way you’ve dedicated your lives to us. I’ve never doubted that family was the most important thing for the both of you.
Mom, thanks for being such a great example of loving everyone. No matter what I did, or what I was going through, or who my friends were, you were always there to love me. I’ve always admired the way you were so willing to serve anybody; I’ve tried to be that way myself.
Thank you for teaching me through your example the kind of woman I should look for as a wife. I know that part of the reason I ended up with someone so wonderful as Tasha is because you helped me to see what was important. Thanks for always encouraging me to be a good example and to help my friends. I love you so much!
Dad, thanks for teaching me the importance of hard work. I still hope someday that I can be as hard a worker as you. I enjoyed every opportunity I got to “help” you with a home improvement project. Because of those experiences, I’m not afraid to get my hands dirty, open things up, and figure out how to fix things.
Also, thank you for teaching me the value of humility, and for appreciating my strengths. I remember one time you came to ask me for some help with your computer. It’s not easy to admit you need help, but you still did it anyway. I love you!
Above all, thank you both for teaching me the gospel. Thanks for teaching it not only with words, but also by example. I remember coming up to your room at night to tell you I was home, and finding you both on your knees in prayer. That’s something that has always stuck with me.
Thanks for always holding FHE, even when sometimes we wanted to do something else. I don’t remember the lessons so well, but I do remember how much fun it was, and I remember the spirit that was there.
I love you mom and dad! My patriarchal blessing calls you “wonderful” and “of the salt of the earth,” and I know it’s true. Thank you so much for being such great parents!
I admit, I’m biased against Apple. If you’ve read any of my previous posts, you’ve probably already noticed this.
I’ve also been fascinated by the idea of fanboyism and brand loyalty.
So here’s my question: Why do I dislike Apple so much?
I love my webOS phone, but if I had to give it up, I’d be willing to give WP7 a try, or maybe even an Android phone. Anything but the iPhone really. But when you think about it, Apple is the one out there with the best specs on their iPhone, and the most polished OS. So why do I avoid it like the plague?
I’ve been wondering about this lately. The brand loyalty articles say that faced with a choice between equally valued options, choosing one will decrease your opinion of the others, right? I still think webOS has awesome potential, and I’ll admit… I’m a little bit of a fanboy. But why do I dislike Apple so much more than the other options?
The only thing I can come up with is that I dislike Apple’s policies so much that I refuse to buy their products, even if they are better. The more ground Apple makes in the technology market, the more frustrated with them I become. Am I the only one that thinks Apple is becoming a bit of a bully? They remind me of Microsoft as they began to face their anti-trust lawsuits.
Am I being irrational here? What do you think?
(I missed a post yesterday, so I post-dated this one. I’m not trying to fool anyone.)