Brandon Moon
Introspective. Gadget Geek. Computer Whisperer. Amateur pianist and guitarist. Investigator of the social impact of technology. Married to the best person ever!
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Last night I was watching the cosby show with my wife, where Claire (Cosby’s wife in the show) discovers a quiz for married couples to see how in love they are. The first question (and the only question she gets around to reading) is: if you could change one thing about your spouse, what would it be? Cliff (Cosby) says “I wouldn’t change a thing,” mainly because he just wants to go to sleep. Of course, because it is a comedy, this gets him in trouble.
The comedy ensued, but at that moment I decided to ask my wife that question about me. Her response?
“I’d make your nose blow.”
Maybe that doesn’t sound all that sweet to you, but I think it’s a great answer. Of all the things about me that my wife could change (all my character flaws, my personality, I’m sure there’s plenty), she chooses something not only small, but a purely physical thing. And in reality, something that I wish I could change too (it’s odd, I know, but I can’t blow my nose).
Thanks for looking out for me honey!
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A little while ago my wife wrote an adorable post about the influence I’ve had in her life. She submitted the writing to a project by Cassandra Barney called “What Saved Me”. Turns out the artist selected my wife’s post, and turned it into this painting. She depicts my hand outstretched, holding up a miniature version of my wife in the palm of my hand.
What I love about this work is the look on my wife’s face. She appears calm, peaceful, and not at all out of place on my hand. Her arms are folded serenely over her lap, and although there is darkness around, she shines bright.
When I first met my wife, I had an experience that is very hard to describe. In short, I was given a vision of her potential. I can’t adequately describe how it happened. I remember I was looking at her, trying not to be noticed (we were only just becoming friends), and somehow… I saw past who she was that day. I saw who she could become. It was a profound experience; one I know I’ll never forget. I saw a beauty in her that is indescribable. I saw her inner light. And it left me completely dazzled. I think that was the moment I started falling in love with her.
I know now that it is my responsibility to help her reach that potential. And I will do everything I can to help her make that happen.
This is what this picture means to me.
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This is a slideshow of us that I made a few days before our wedding. I was a bit rushed, so I didn’t have time to go back and sort out the audio issues. Hope you like it!
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I love Tasha Moon because:
- She is so good at apologizing. Not like me, who says “sorry” for everything until it doesn’t really mean as much anymore. She knows when to say she’s sorry, and I’m amazed at how even the little things matter to her. It’s easy to see that she truly cares about you.
- She does not accept defeat easily. I have seen her work her tail off time and time again to conquer something that doesn’t come naturally to her. If she wants to learn how to do it, she doesn’t stop. She works hard to be the person she wants to be.
- She is very modest, and not just in the clothing way. She’s modest in her dress, in her attitude, in her performance, and in her desires. She will never make you feel inferior, nor is she ever prideful or haughty. And I love her for it.
- She is so good at writing. I love reading her blog posts, both on her own blog and on the BYU Women’s Services & Resources blog. I don’t know how she does it, or how she does it so effortlessly (seriously, this post took me forever to finish), but her words resonate with me, and I know they’ve touched the lives of many others.
- She is absolutely beautiful, inside and out. I love her attitude, I love her cute smile, and I love her sincere desire to be a good wife. She is such a good example to me. I cannot believe I am married to such a treasure.
Thank you honey for being the best wife ever! I love you!
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Announcing our announcement! (How meta is that?) Less than one month to go!
Update: We just mailed these puppies today (21st) so you should be getting them soon. If you would like to attend and we somehow missed sending you an announcement, just send me an email, facebook message, twitter dm, etc. and I’ll send you the address.
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A little while after I first started dating Tasha, she taught me this really cute analogy with her hands. She held hers up, with her fingers spread apart, and explained that her fingers represented her gifts, and the gaps between represented the things that maybe she wasn’t so good at. Then she took my hand, and with our fingers intertwined, explained that my gifts fill her gaps.
The more and more I’ve spent time with Tasha, I’ve come to realize that it goes both ways:
Her gifts fill my gaps.
Tasha has the most brilliant, radiant testimony I have ever seen. It shines through in everything she does, and in every life she touches. I am amazed by her desire to help others. She inspires me to be better, and helps me to focus on what is important. With her, I’m less afraid to tackle life’s challenges. She is always so understanding of everything, and somehow manages to get what it is I’m saying, even when I can’t find the right words (and sometimes even when I don’t say anything at all). Her love of family, her desires to do what is right, her incredible spirituality, and her beautiful life are just a few of the reasons I love her so so much.
Most of all, I love her for the joy she spreads. Pure, honest, sincere joy. She knows how to find the good in everything, and she loves to share it. She truly is amazing.
(You can get to know her too, through her amazing blog. Check it out, you’ll be amazed like me!)
The other night, Tasha and I realized that while holding hands, our palms are together. Our palms represent the basis of who we are. Our goals, our desires, our dreams. And I realized that ours match perfectly. Though we have different gifts and gaps, different interests and different struggles, when we bring our palms together and remember what is important, everything else seems to work out just fine.
Well, naturally I couldn’t let a girl like that get away. So I asked her to marry me! I’m so happy to announce that she said “yes!” We are getting married in the Salt Lake Temple on February 18th, 2011.
And I couldn’t be happier!
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